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AaGymKH. Abdullah Gymnastiar, lahir di Bandung pada tanggal 29 Januari 1962 dari pasangan Letkol H. Engkus Kuswara dan Ny. Hj. Yeti Rohayati, sebuah keluarga yang dikenal relijius dan disiplin. Tak ingin disebut Kiai, atau Ustad, karenanya lebih dikenal dengan panggilan Aa Gym. Dari pernikahannya dengan Ninih Muthmainnah Muhsin cucu KH. Mohamad Tasdiqin (Pengasuh Pondok Pesantren Kalangsari, Cijulang, Ciamis Selatan). Aa Gym dikaruniai tujuh orang anak, yakni Ghaida Tsuraya, Muhammad Ghazi Al-Ghifari, Ghina Raudhatul Jannah, Ghaitsa Zahira Shofa, Ghefira Nur Fatimah, Ghaza Muhammad Al-Ghazali, dan Gheriya Rahima. Tak ketinggalan, dua puluh lima orang anak angkat yang menjadi anak asuh di keluarga ini.

Latar belakang pendidikan Aa Gym memang tidak dibesarkan atau dididik di lingkungan pesantren yang ketat - terutama pesantren dalam pengertian tradisional. Bahkan, guru pertama yang diakuinya adalah adiknya sendiri, Agung Gunmartin, seorang yang cacat, lumpuh, matanya juling, yang telinganya hampir tuli, yang tidak bisa bergerak. Namun adiknya ini sangat gigih, tetap rajin kuliah dan tak pernah lepas shalat tahajudnya. Meskipun untuk bernapas sudah susah sekali, dia tetap mendisiplinkan diri untuk ke masjid. Aa Gym dengan setia menggendong adiknya baik ke masjid maupun ke kampus.

Lama kelamaan, keadaan sang adik terus melemah, duduk pun sudah tidak bisa. Tangannya menjadi tidak bisa digerakkan lagi. Namun demikian, kondisi ini dihadapi sang adik dengan penuh kesabaran, tanpa mengeluh. “Sampai akhirnya dia meninggal di pangkuan saya, betul-betul adik saya itu meninggal di pangkuan saya ketika menghembuskan nafas terakhirnya.” kata Aa Gym.

Pencarian jati diri Aa Gym memang diwarnai dengan beberapa peristiwa aneh, seolah-olah Allah sudah mempersiapkan dirinya untuk menjadi pejuang di jalan-Nya. Bermula dari sebuah pengalaman langka: nyaris sekeluarga ibu, adik dan dirinya sendiri pada suatu ketika dalam tidur mereka secara bergiliran bermimpi bertemu dengan Rasulullah Saw.  Sang Ibu mendapati Rasulullah sedang mencari-cari seseorang pada malam lainnya, giliran salah seorang adiknya bermimpi Rasulullah mendatangi rumah mereka. Ketika itu ayahnya langsung menyuruh Gymnastiar, “Gym, ayolah temani Rasul.” Ketika ditemui, ternyata Rasul menyuruhnya untuk menyeru orang mendirikan shalat. Beberapa malam setelah itu, Aa Gym memimpikan hal yang sama. Dalam mimpinya dia sempat ikut shalat berjamaah dengan Rasulullah dan keempat sahabat: Abu Bakar, Umar, Utsman dan Ali. “Saya berdiri disamping Sayidina Ali, sementara Rasulullah bertindak sebagai imam.” katanya. Namun, sebelum mimpi ini, terlebih dahulu Aa Gym bermimpi didatangi seorang tua berjubah putih bersih yang kemudian mencuci mukanya dengan ekor bulu merak yang disaputi bulu madu. Setelah itu, orang tersebut berkata bahwa insyaAllah, kelak dia akan menjadi orang yang mulia.

Setelah peristiwa mimpi itu, mulai banyak peristiwa lain yang mengoncangkan batinnya. Masa-masa penuh peristiwa spiritual itu dijalani selama beberapa saat, yang membuat benar-benar mabuk kepayang kepada Allah SWT. Selama dalam proses itulah, Aa Gym bertemu dengan empat orang ulama yang sangat mengerti keadannya, yang mengatakan bahwa Aa Gym telah dikaruniai ilmu laduni, yakni dengan secara langsung dibukakan hati untuk mengenal-Nya, tanpa melalui proses riyadhah. Demikian juga KH. Khoer Affandi, ulama tasawuf terkenal yang semasa hidupnya adalah pemimpin Pesantren Miftahul Huda, Manonjaya, Tasikmalaya, mengatakan bahwa dirinya telah dikaruniai ma’rifatullah.

Beberapa saat setelah menimba ilmu kepada keempat ulama itu, Allah swt mengaruniakan kemudahan sehingga lidah dan pikirannya dimudahkan untuk menjelaskan segala sesuatu.

Kini, Aa Gym menjadi pimpinan di Pesantren Daarut Tauhiid yang berdiri sejak tahun 1990 dan telah tersebar di tiga kota: Bandung, Jakarta dan Batam. Strategi dakwah yang dilakukan di Daarut Tauhiid lebih diarahkan untuk membangun kekuatan akhlak dan ekonomi. Orientasi perbaikan akhlak dilakukan lewat pengembangan konsep Manajemen Qolbu, sedangkan aspek ekonomi ditandai dengan pengembangan sejumlah unit usaha antara lain minimarket, BMT, penerbitan, sanggar busana muslimah, wartel, kerajinan tangan, percetakan, radio, rekaman, dan production house.

Dengan motto Dzikir, Fikir, Ikhtiar; Daarut Tauhiid berusaha membentuk insan yang ramah, santun berwibawa, rajin, terampil cekatan dan tidak menyia-nyiakan waktu, karena hidup adalah untuk mempersembahkan yang terbaik, yang bermakna bagi dunia dan berarti bagi akhirat kelak.

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Safe Sex Tutorial from Plis Deh
  • Safe sex (also called safer sex or protected sex) is the practice of sexual activity in a manner that reduces the risk of infection with sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Conversely, unsafe sex is the practice of sexual intercourse without regard for prevention of STDs. Safe sex practices became prominent in the late 1980s as a result of the AIDS epidemic. Promoting safe sex is now a principal aim of sex education. From the viewpoint of society, safe sex can be regarded as a harm reduction strategy. The goal of safer sex is education and risk reduction. In contrast to protected sex is unprotected sex, which can refer to: The practice of sex without protection from pregnancy and The practice of sex without protection from STDs. Although safe sex practices can be used as a form of family planning, the term refers to efforts made to prevent infection rather than conception. Many effective forms of contraception do not offer protection against STDs.
  • Sex by yourself,known as autoeroticism, solitary sexual activity is relatively safe. Masturbation, the simple act of stimulating one's own genitalia, is safe so long as contact is not made with other people's discharged bodily fluids. However, some practices, such as self-bondage and autoerotic asphyxia, are made considerably more dangerous by the absence of people who can intervene if something goes wrong. Modern technology does permit some activities, such as "phone sex" and "cybersex", that allow for partners to engage in sexual activity without being in the same room, eliminating the risks involved with exchanging bodily fluids.
  • Note that most methods of contraception other than the barrier methods mentioned above are not effective at preventing the spread of STDs. This includes the "rhythm method", which is also commonly known as Natural Family Planning. The spermicide Nonoxynol-9 has been claimed to reduce the likelihood of STD transmission. However a recent study by the World Health Organization has shown that Nonoxynol-9 is an irritant and can produce tiny tears in mucous membranes, which may increase the risk of transmission by offering pathogens more easy points of entry into the system. As a result condoms with a Nonoxynol-9 lubricant are not to be promoted. Coitus interruptus (or "pulling out"), in which the penis is removed from the vagina, anus, or mouth before ejaculation, is not safe sex and can result in STD transmission. This is because of the formation of pre-ejaculate, a fluid that oozes from the urethra before actual ejaculation. In opposition to conventional wisdom, some recent studies awaiting confirmation suggest that pre-ejaculate may not contain sperm; it can, however, contain pathogens such as HIV. In addition, open sores on either partner can permit transmission, as can microscopic breaks in the skin which arise due to friction, or other irregularities in the skin of either partners genitalia or other body parts.
  • Unprotected anal sex is a high risk activity regardless of sexual orientation. Research suggests that although gay men are more likely to engage in anal sex, heterosexual couples are more likely not to use condoms when doing so. Anal sex is more risky than vaginal, since being very thin tissues of anus and rectum can be easily damaged during such sex activities as anal intercourse or use of anal toys. Even slight injuries can become "open gates" for various bacteria and viruses, including HIV. This implies that anal sex does require some certain safety measures. First of all, any partners who practice anal sex should be aware of the necessity of using a condom. The condom must be put on properly, otherwise it does not provide reliable protection. Users should keep in mind that oil-based lubricants damage latex. For this reason water-based lubricants should be used for anal sex. Those who have allergy to latex should consider use of non-latex condoms, for instance polyurethane condoms that are compatible with both oil-based and water-based lubricants. Condoms should also be used with sex toys. Through putting a condom on the sex toy a user provides better hygiene and prevents transmission of infections if the sex toy is shared. Cleaning of anal sex toys is also a very important matter as many anal sex toys are made of porous materials. Pores retain viruses and bacteria. For this reason users should clean anal toys (plugs, anal vibrators) thoroughly, preferably with use of special sex toy cleaners. Glass sex toys are more preferred for sexual uses because of their non-porus nature and ability to be sterilized between uses.

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